Should we trust someone? And who are the someone? Family member? Friend? Best friend? Or who we can trust only are just ourselves? I think everyone has their different answer respectively.
I just remembered that someone had told me before," dun trust anyone beside you. If you chose to trust them, you will be hurted at last. Coz anything will not last forever. The more you trust, the more hurt you will gain. "
Ya, I cannot deny it. It will be felt very very pain in our heart if someone who are vital to us betray us. Just like what had said in poem of 'IF'. The poet told us not to believe anyone in our life. We can have a friend or best friend , but dun tell them all about your secret. Dun belive them 100%... They might betray you on some reason. And, at that moment, you will found that you lost everything in your life. For example, the drama will always show that one of the character will suicide if he or she had betray by someone which they loved or trusted. This is because if you trust someone 100%, that means you cannot live without him or her. And, if you found that he or she betray you surely you will be lost everything because nobody will beside with you when you face some problem, you will be alone in your future.
On the other hand, no pain no gain. If you din be hurted since young, How can you gain experience? How can you face problem in the future? By having hurted by someone, surely we will grow up and gain the knowledge which we cannot gain through reading. We need to learn some social skills since young. This skill and experience really will help us a lot in our future. By having those experience, we can easily know who are our true friend and who should be trusted or not.And it will help us to go through the obstacle easier than others.
For me, till now i haven't found my answer yet. I dun know whether I should believe other or not. Hence most of the time i just tell them what is my feeling olny. Is that meant that i am trusting someone? I will only tell them a event but din tell them the character who involve in that incident. So, is that meant i am believing someone?
